cupcakevandorn asked: Gut Symmetries is my favorite.
What’s your favorite quote off it?
We love the habits of love. The way you wear your hair. The way you drink your coffee. The way you turn your back on me in the mornings so that I will shift to fit myself round you. The way you open the door when you see me coming home. When I leave I look up at the window and I know you will be watching me, watching over me go.
And at the same time love needs to be new every day. The fresh damp risen-up feel of love.
lack-of-surprise- asked: What is your favourite Winterson book?
Written on the Body always has my heart.
What’s yours? :)
I find myself returning again and again to the same familiar condition of solitariness. Is it sex that makes this happen? If it were not for sex, wouldn’t we each be content with our friends, their companionship and confidences? I love my friends. I am a good friend. But with my lover I begin to feel alone.
A friend of mine can be happy without a lover; she will have an affair if she wants one, but she doesn’t take the trouble to love.
I do very badly without a lover. I pine, I sigh, I sleep, I dream, I set the table for two and stare into the empty chair. I could invite a friend – sometimes I do – but that is not the point; the point is that I am always wondering where you are even when you don’t exist.
Sometimes I have affairs. But though I enjoy the bed, I feel angry at the fraud; the closeness without the cost.
I know what the cost is: the more I love you, the more I feel alone.
